If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition or spirit to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, heck no, you can't ''be friends ''. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think it will get better. You'll be mad at yourself a year later for stayingwhen things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't ever make him feel he is moreimportant than you are.. even if he has more education, or is in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you. All men are not dogs. You should not be the only one doing allthe bending.. compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships.. there is nothing cute about baggage.

Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you.. a relationship consists of two whole individuals. Look forsomeone complimentary, not supplementary. Dating is fun.. even if he of two doesn't turn out to Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes.. when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him. He takes it forgranted. Never move into his mother's house, never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

- Oprah Winfrey

Heartbreak Collision

where do we go from here
when we know it hurts
but we just cant seem to let go
from here
so we work things out
but we both end up hurting
and it seems
to disappear
cause the love we had
just aint no longer here
and Im lost
on a road
with no speed limit
a heartbreak collision is near
dont pull me over
oh I just cant take it

"True love does not want for anything. If you hope and nothing returns, you do not stop loving a person. It's not important if your efforts don't bring in a result. What's important the capacity to
love unconditionally."

sushi with girls <3

had sushi with my gurliess today <3 it was really fun. havent laughed so much in SOOOO long! I even had tears in my eyes.. LOL. I was thinking of flopping on sushi but im glad i didnt! i really needed a pick me up! lately i've been stressing out SOOO much! School, personal situations and just... i dunnoooo. I went with Diana, Jess, Ryda and Annabelle. It was hilarious. We were the loudest ones in the whole resaurant LOL everyone kept staring at us and they caught me everytime i made a funny face which was.. pretty embarassing.. LMFAO. Anywho im looking forward to this weekend! Tomorrow im thinking of going to Fearfest and Sunday i'm getting my nails done :D mani AND pedi woot woot :D I'm hoping theres a family get together on monday! YAY turkey day! mmm yum. But yeah i was just on facebook and i found a really nice note that Ninibeth supposedly stole from someone lmao But yeah this goes out to all you gurls..

I know you miss him
& I know you think you can't be without him .
I know he told you he loved you
& I know he said he'd never leave .
I know although you knew you shouldn't have believed that , you did
& I know you want him more than anything .
I know you spend extra time doing your makeup and hair perfect just incase he looks your way
& I know secretly , you want to bump into him anywhere you go .
I know you get that feeling when you walk past him
& I know you just want him to look your way .
I know he called you his "baby" and "his number one"
& I know he told you he loved you at the end of each of his texts .
I know he told you you was his world
& I know he made you happy .
I know you re-read the saved texts from him that you should have deleted ages ago
& I know you can't figure out what's making you still like him so much even after he's caused you so much pain .
I know your face lights up at the mention of his name
& I know your scared to talk about him to your friends because you don't want them to know how amazing he is .
I know you still get that tingley feeling if he so much as looks as though he's looking your way
& I know that the whole day you'll be analyzing what that look meant .
I know you know he used you
& I know you always forgave him for all his faults no matter what .
I know you smile bigger, talk louder and laugh more when you see him anywhere near
& I know that's because you just want him to notice you again .
I know you compare every guy to him
& I know you'd do anything to prove your love for him .
I know you take his mistakes out on everyone but him
& I know you don't mean to .
I know you read your saved msn conversations you had with him everynight
& I know you cry everytime .
I know you think you won't care for anyone as much as you cared for him
& I know you tell everyone your 'obviously' over him .
I know that you don't know that I can see right through that .
I know you listen to the songs that remind you of him everynight
& I know you cry yourself to sleep .
I know you'd do anything to be perfect for him
& I know if it meant you had to stab yourself the next day after seeing him only if it meant spending a whole day with him, you'd do it .
I know you can't figure out what's so different about him to all the other guys you've been with previously
& I know he's the reason you look in the mirror too much .
I know you get that feeling every time you get a text , just because of the slight chance it might be him
& I know anyone can see the hurt in your eyes when you find out it isn't .
I know you cant figure out why he left you
& I know you'll never get an answer to that question .
I know that .
Trust me .
Now listen ,
I know he doesn't miss you
& I know he doesn't look at you twice .
I know that if he does catch your eye , it's because your staring at him and he's just looking around .
I know your texts to him were deleted a long time ago ,
along with the msn conversations
& I know he's dating a new girl now.
I know for a fact that he doesn't compare her to you .
I know he doesn't have feelings for you anymore
& I know he just doesn't care .
I know he doesn't love you anymore .
He never did .

P.S.
I know you still miss him .
Even after reading this and realizing someone else felt exactly the same way about him that you do now .
But trust me ,
the girl he's dating now will feel exactly how you felt .
Remember you gotta be strong ,
keep your chin up
& head held high .
You will get over him .
I know .

Birthday Weekend

Okay so on my birthday on Friday i went to dinner with my Family! People invited me to come chill and eat but naahh family first always! sorry.. LOL I heard it the chillage was boring anyway. BUT YEAH! We went to All Star Wings and it was an hour wait so we decided to go to Korean BBQ instead! food was aightt. My dad kept making me and my brother drink tons of Sake. LOL. Anywho.. Next day i went to a friends house and chilled. Then met up with Diana at vaughan mills. We shopped for my Birthday outfit! YUP THAT'S RIGHT! I'm actually celebrating my birthday next week! WHY?? well i have no idea.. LOL kidding it's cuz i wanna go to screemers for my birthday and screemers opens next week. So yeah Me and Diana jus chilled at the mall bought tons of shit and after left the mall cuz it was closing. We realized it was still SOO early! So we went to Wal-Mart! lmfao! We made a video (up there) It's pretty funny.. well to me atleast.. LOL. I've always had so many subscribers but only one video that was 10 seconds. AND NOW.. the movie making begins! I'm planning to make more videos soon so watch out for that ;P
I'm Really excited for next week :D:D hmm this weekend is thanksgiving YAY FOOD!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME !

:D:D:D
imma update on my bday tingz SOONNNNNNN cuz it jus starteed :D